Sunday, October 11, 2009

Homosexuality: A high school student's dilemma.

Two adolescents deal with one of the hardest things in high school: being gay. The couple's strength is tested when their sexuality is exposed to the entire school. One of them is willing to come out, the other wants to deny everything and keep it a secret. The very validity of their relationship hangs in the balance...Â

There are some adolescents who find difficulties in terms of their sexual preference(being gay). Most of them are afraid to what will people say, most of them are trying to camouflage to avoid judgemental.

Two years ago during high school I remember, I was one of those guys having dilemma with sexual orientation. I hate it when people are labeling me "gay". So every time when there was a chance I was always saying "Ang gwapo ko no?" or when there was a lady passing by, I would say to someone beside me "shit ang ganda n'ya!" or worse "nakakagigil!". I experienced to court a girl even I didn't like it. What is funny in my story is that, I can't resist myself much from staring guys especially when they are cute and sexy but of course I don't want to mess up with my credibility. Haha! So, i used to stop myself from staring before they notice. Hehe! "Pasimple!"

However, I didn't close my option. I experienced to have a same sex relationship, what was big deal about it is that we had to kept it secret, of course. But me and my partner's agony started when my friends and classmates knew about it.

In relation to Psychology, according to my friend Homosexuality is merely a feeling , a feeling when you fight back can manifest as maladjustment. But i don't know if I'm going to believe it or what.

Furthermore, according to my professor homosexuals mostly are creative, skillful and intelligent, because homosexuals have more Corpus Callosum that connects the two hemisphere of the brain.

I believe homosexuality can start as early as three years old. In frued's theory of personality development, during Latency stage (ages 7-11) children prefer social activities with same sex but not in this case, a gay child prefers to play dolls and kitchen toys with their neighbor's daughter. At Genital stage (ages 11+) the faggot child can feel lust and affection but not to establish intimate relationships.

I infer Anima (Female side of male) dominates the personality of a homosexual. Some homosexuals are Introvert( concerned with themselves, hesitant, quiet cautious and generally they inhibit or hold back expressions of their impulses and feelings), they are so-called "discreet". Some are Extrovert( open confident, like a high levels of stimulation, talkative, sociable, give free expressions of their impulses and feelings).

Moreover, Homosexuals are fully functioning people, they enjoy life to the fullest. They are also self actualizing people, they reach their fullest potential and accept their selves for what they are. Unfortunately, they have to deny their personality and repress to avoid insults and frustrations.

i love it!

And that is why i like the video! oh! readers, you can see on the Psychology book by Marilou C. Asturias, Henry M. Agong and Allan T. Mosura all the terminologies I used here on my blog!